No Contest Items: A potential approach to gaining trust in the early phases of hoarding support services...
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Now, this is not to say that all severe cases of compulsive hoarding would not benefit from this approach; however, as with all approaches and strategies, each client's responses will vary depending on their motivation for change, ambivalence and recognition of their hoarding issues. Some clients have responded favourably and chose one item such as scrapbooking supplies, fishing tackle or antique tools. Others have requested three items which may have included Hot Wheels cars, anything related to their years of service in Girl Scouts or anything that was for gardening. Keep in mind that we spent a significant amount of time cutting fishing line and untangling tackle that wound up filling 7 tackle boxes for nearly 50 fishing rods. Strangely, we only came across 7 reels for 50 fishing rods but we weren't complaining about that by the end when the client donated 95% of his fishing tackle to a youth recreation centre.
The purpose behind establishing no contest items is to support the client's sense of control, demonstrate our own flexibility in the process, and establish an understanding between client and counsellor about what items are most important to the client. An element of keeping the process client-centred requires sensitivity to the client's level of distress that is caused by permitting an unknown person into their homes, touching their things, seeing their lives on display and concerns the counsellor will form negative judgments about the client. Again, ensuring the client's have a strong understanding of the limits within the therapeutic process, the control the client's have as the owners of the process and it's outcomes, and the understanding that the process is flexible can go a very long way to helping ease the client's immediate concerns about engaging in the therapeutic process with a counsellor. The counsellor's follow through with the agreement to no contest items is what will build and enhance the trust and rapport between client and counsellor.
As with all therapeutic strategies and approaches, we can never quite fully anticipate the client's response or the overall outcome but we must be prepared to be flexible and creative at all times. As with many of the experiences we will share, lessons we have learned, and the suggestions we will be making over the course of our articles, it will always be through the experience and competency of the counsellor, as well as the relationship between and client and the counsellor, that will determine the effectiveness of any form of intervention. If you have any questions or require any clarification on no contest items, please let us know! We are glad to provide further information and offer support wherever we can.
Our next article will focus on the value difference between client and counsellor and how these can either benefit or impede the therapeutic process but more so, how to avoid the value difference pitfalls that are common to any therapeutic process. We will post this article for discussion on Friday August 26, 2016 and look forward to sharing our learning and resources with you! Until then, take care and keep digging.


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